July 29, 2008

  • a perfect 7.

    in the Bible, 7 is the number of completion and fullness. well, i went to my 7th Mets game of 2008 this Sunday. and as usual, the Mets pummeled their opponents to give me a spotless 7-0 record on the year. a quick recap of my games:

    Thursday, April 10 (with Pastor Rich, his wife, and Richie Jr.)
    Mets 4, Phillies 3 in 12 innings. Angel Pagan drives home Reyes with the game-winning hit.

    Thursday, May 29 (with Jeanette, Dale, Ken Woo, his friend)
    Mets 8, Dodgers 4. Wright homers twice.

    Sunday, June 1 (with Sarah, JoCha, Eliza, Dale, Mitch, Anna, Ken Kim, Austin, Jacob, his friend, Theresa, her friend, Melanie, Haejin, Linda)
    Mets 6, Dodgers 1. Beltran & Church with homers; Santana notches his 100th career win.

    Wednesday, June 25 (with three of my housemates)
    Mets 8, Mariners 4. Wright homers twice (again!) and Reyes hits 3-run homer to ice it early.

    Wednesday, July 9 (with Pastor Walter, Mitch, Jacob)
    Mets 5, Giants 0. Castro hits a 3-run shot. During the rain delay, we watch the Citi Field preview presentation.

    Wednesday, July 23 (with Pastor Walter, Paul, Esther Pak, Songeie, Jimmy, Eugene)
    Mets 6, Phillies 3. Reyes hits the big 3-run homer in the 6th, and the Mets are back in a tie for first.

    Sunday, July 27 (with Jacob, Ken Kim, Austin, James Carrie, Sarah, JoCha, Melanie, Theresa, her two friends, YoungP, Boae, Julie)
    Mets 9, Cardinals 1. Castro and Tatis with taters. Santana pitches a complete game. Mets remain a game up in first place.

    Oh, and Beltran makes this catch.

    alas, i think it's time to save some money. so the plan is no more Mets games until September and OCTOBER. hehe. LGM!

    some pics from this past Sunday:

    me, mel & carrie. man, mel never looked so good before in that Mets shirt. haha.

    ken loves his peanuts.

    me and james at sam won gak. after the game, we ate here, then we enjoyed Red Mango!

    all the lovely ladies outside Red Mango.

    i love hot dogs. and the Mets! LGM!!!

July 18, 2008

  • see his love

    jesus culture rocks. that's the name of the youth ministry of Bethel Church in Redding, CA. here's one of my new favorite songs (although it's not their own, their version rocks!).

    Verse 1:
    See His love nailed onto a cross

    Perfect and blameless life given as sacrifice


    See Him there all in the name of love


    Broken yet glorious, all for the sake of us




    Chorus:


    This is Jesus in His glory


    King of Heaven dying for me


    It is finished, He has done it


    Death is beaten, Heaven beckons me




    Verse 2:


    Greater love no one could ever show


    Mercy so undeserved, freedom I should not know


    All my sin, all of my hidden shame


    Died with Him on the cross, eternity won for us




    Bridge:


    Such love, such love


    Such love is this for me (repeat)

July 17, 2008

  • yay!

    i found my pen!!!

    i thought i lost it at church on saturday. on sunday at the TLC leaders appreciation banquet (which was AWESOME by the way. Carrie & co. did a great job and i felt very appreciated!), i prayed to God that i would somehow find it in the church house. "it's like finding a needle in a stack of needles," as Tom Hanks' character in Saving Private Ryan would say. so yeah, no dice there. today, i just planned on heading over to Staples and buying a replacement. but as i'm getting my car washed, i check my back seat just to make sure there's nothing there... and i see my pen!!!

    it's my precious pen, my beautiful $10 Parker Jotter stainless steel pen. praise the Lord!!!!!
    yes i know this may sound silly to you, but it just made my day. and i looked to rejoice with different people online. you see, true friends know how to rejoice with you even when it may seem insignificant to them.. yeah? here's one of my true friends:

    me: hi elyse!

      guess what!
    12:15 PM Elyse: what?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
     me: i found my pen!!!
     Elyse: yay~~~~~~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     me: haha
     Elyse: so happy for you~~~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     me: yeah!!!!!
      aw man
      you're the best
     Elyse: hahaha
    12:16 PM me: you're a good fellow rejoicer
     Elyse: and you're such a dork!
      hehehe
     me: what!
      how dare you!
     Elyse: no, but really
     me: i'm just praising God!
     Elyse: i am happy for you
      very very happy
     me: it's a precious pen
     Elyse: that you are happy
    whatever the reason may be

    =====
    I'm very thankful for the opportunities I get to preach. There are certain times when I just know that I was born to preach. It's like I feel out of it, or I've had a bad day/week, and I start preparing a sermon, and it's like, I'm totally in my element, and my juices start flowing. That's when you know that you were created with a certain gift and for a true purpose. People, we all need to find our respective elements because that's when we'll really take off as the body of Christ :) Praise God!

July 10, 2008

  • final TLC 6-29-08

    our final TLC meeting was quite memorable.

    first we had a delicious BBQ at a really nice patio. here's a pic of the lovely ladies of Alchemy TLC.

    Top Row (L-R): Boae, Heesun, Julie
    Lower Row (L-R): Mara, Yoonie, Erica, Jessica, Raine

    next, we went to Jason & Heesun's place. they were kind enough to host us. they have a beautiful place. there, we gave out gag gifts to each member of our TLC. we assigned every member a body part; after all, we are all members of Christ's body. theresa did an awesome job and assigning body parts and writing something nice for each person. here are a few members and their gifts. can you guess which body part each person was?

    that's kil & his moleskine notebooks. of course, he is the 'mind' of our TLC. always thinking, always writing.

    theresa, our reliable core, got the twister game. hmm, i don't remember what body part she was- i guess she's just very flexible and quite fit as well.

    my wonderful co-leader julie received twizzlers! darn it, i also forget what she was! but she was awesome all year, and she complemented me well.

    this dude i remember. young represented the hands of our body because he's so good with them and he's always ready to serve.

    haha. yes, i'm the bubbles man. i was chosen to be the lungs of our group. i loved how theresa said that i breathe life into the group. "just like the Red song," i thought. hehe, awesome!

    afterwards, we taped our own construction paper to our backs. then we wrote encouraging notes on each other's paper. i was VERY encouraged by a lot of things my members wrote for me. some pics:

     

    what a great way to end our TLC. it was my first year leading, and i'm so thankful that i had such wonderful brothers and sisters in my group. we had a lot of great memories and milestones. during the year, we had one marriage, one new baby, one sent off to missions, one new job, one new business-to-be-opened and many students finishing their school years!
    here's to Alchemy TLC!!!!! God bless all of you

June 26, 2008

  • happy birthday sis!!!

    my beautiful noonah Bonnie turns xx today!!! happy birthday sis! here's a good picture we just took:

    yes, we just came from inside an ocean. hard to believe, i know!!! btw, please disregard the frosted flakes cereal boxes in the background

    =====
    went to the mets game last night with my three housemates... yup, another W. the Mets are now 4-0 when I go to their games this year. i should let the front office know so that i can get free tickets for the rest of the year
    LGM!


June 25, 2008

  • how's your worship?

    i just watched a very convicting sermon by Pastor Mark Driscoll from Mars Hill Church entitled "Worship: God Transforms."
    here are the full notes.. the most convicting part is the set of questions he asked regarding the idols in your life..

    i encourage you to go through them.. a few of them really hit me (i put them in italics). time to throw all idols down!!!

    Who/what are your external idols?

    • Who/what is my Lord that rules over my life determining how I live?
    • Who/what is my Judge I am living to earn the approval of?  
    • Where do you give the firstfruits of your wealth?
    • Where do you give the firstruits of your time?
    • What people and things take the majority of your life?
    • What do you plan and pray for?

     Who/what are your internal idols?

    • What false beliefs do you hold about God?
    • Which parts of Scripture do you deeply doubt or even disbelieve?
    • Deep down in your heart who/what do you love, cherish, treasure, long for the most?
    • Deep down in your heart who/what do you despise and hate the most?
    • Who/what makes you happiest? Why?
    • Who/what makes you saddest? Why?

    Who/what is your mediator between you and God?

    • Who or what other than Jesus do you use to get closer to God?
    • Who or what if taken from your life would cause you to not walk as faithfully with God?
    • How do you define yourself, especially when introducing yourself to others?

    Where is your functional heaven?

    • When daydreaming about escaping this life, what does your
      functional heaven look like and how is it different from the real
      heaven?
    • On earth, where do you run for your safety or comfort as your
      hiding place (e.g. the fridge, alcohol, the television, a person, a
      place, a hobby)?

    Who/what is your functional savior?

    • What is your picture of hell in this life (e.g. being single, not having children, being poor, etc.)?
    • Who or what do you use to save you from what you fear (e.g. a relationship, children, money, shopping, sex, etc.)?

    What good thing has become a god thing?

    • Which idols are in your life that when appreciated and/or stewarded
      correctly are means of worship but have become objects of worship (e.g.
      work, family, health, friendship, pleasure, leisure, hobby, etc.)?
    • If you could obtain or change one thing/person in your life what would that be?
    • What idols am I selling to others?

June 24, 2008

  • my lil sis

    i adopted P-Mel as my little sister recently. yes i know, she's terribly lucky.

    watch out, we're both WARRIORS. i just watched Kung Fu Panda on Sunday and Get Smart last night. so from now on, please call me Dragon Warrior Koo or Agent 86 ;)

    I found this really cool gadget that has the Red songs and their explanations! so cool!

    Also, Pillar has this new song which is like a tribute to Christian artists past and present. the song is called "Turn It Up." basically, each lyric is an allusion to a Christian song. here are the lyrics, see which ones you can get. i'll put in bold the ones that i knew. the video below it reveals all the answers 


    I can only imagine


    All of the magic that would happen

    If we all come together


    I could sing of your love forever


    Tell me I'm never alone
    And that I'm going home
    I can hear sounds of melodies

    And the remedy


    That comes when you

    Lift me up


    From the flood
    in the sea of faces
    And I promise you we'll make it

    'Cause In the healing rain
    There is beauty from pain

    But the scars remain


    I will find a way
    To take my life and
    And give it all away
    And I'll be pressing on
    Feel this phenomenon

    Turn it up
    Throw your hands in the air
    All the people everywhere
    Let me hear you say
    Woah, oh, oh, woah, oh, oh
    Yeah, Yeah
    Turn it up
    Let the stereos play
    All the people everywhere
    Let me hear you say
    Woah, oh, oh, woah, oh, oh
    Yeah, Yeah


    I'm learning to breathe again


    Maybe we'll meet again

    I hear whispers in the dark


    Even the snakes have hearts
    So we break free

    Won't you breathe into me


    I'm drawing a black line
    Define the great line

    Maybe I just feel so alive


    It's a super good feeling
    So I'll keep waiting


    Will your momentum change


    Take a typical day
    That you gotta engage

    Don't wait for your heart to cave in


    Give the freaks
    something to believe in
    It's about a burning fire


    If you like it turn it up let me hear you shout


    If you want it turn it up gotta live it loud


    If you like it turn it up let me hear you shout


    If you want it turn it up gotta live it loud



June 12, 2008

  • whither values?

    have you guys heard this story? so outrageous and so sad. what is our country coming to?

    Nude pics bring suspensions for Pascack students
    Monday, June 9, 2008
    Last updated: Monday June 9, 2008, EDT 9:13 PM
    BY LESLIE BRODY
    STAFF WRITER

    Seven
    ninth-graders at Pascack Valley High School have been suspended for the
    rest of the school year for distributing racy photos of middle school
    girls via cell phones and school-issued laptops.

    A student who saw the photos on a laptop tipped off a teacher, and the
    administration alerted Hillsdale police last week, district
    Superintendent Benedict Tantillo III said today.

    More than 20 girls who are now in ninth grade were in the photos, the
    superintendent said. Some pictures appeared to have been taken two or
    three years ago, and some of the subjects moved to private high school
    instead of Pascack Valley. The girls were seen from the waist up in
    various states of undress, typically with bare breasts, he said.

    “I have not seen the pictures,” he added. “I don’t want to see the pictures.”

    Citing a school inquiry, he said it was unclear whether the shots were
    self-portraits or snapped by others but none appeared to have been
    filmed on district property. He said one boy had asked girls to send
    him photos so they could star in a “gallery” he was assembling.

    “As a father of three girls, I can’t imagine (any young women) taking
    pictures of themselves and sending them around knowing they would be
    distributed,” Tantillo said.

    Cases of teens sending around lewd cell phone pictures of their bodies
    have been reported in New York, Connecticut, Alabama, Utah,
    Pennsylvania, Texas and Connecticut. Psychologists say the phenomenon
    reflects young hormones and impulsivity, with technology increasing the
    potential for long-term humiliation. It may also reflect a vogue for
    exhibitionism, as demonstrated on MySpace, YouTube and other Web sites.

    Craig Fabrikant, a Westwood psychologist who works with many northern
    Bergen teens, said that sadly, trading nude cell phone pictures is
    common around here these days.

    Why?

    “The novelty,” he said. “It’s a way of getting attention. . . Kids
    today, in terms of sexuality, are much more open than previous
    generations. The promiscuity of it is psychologically worrisome. It’s
    degrading to our value system.”

    So are parents supposed to spy on their teens’ cell phone snapshots now
    to censor the scandalous? “That’s a good question and opens up a whole
    area of you-don’t-trust-me-mom,” Fabrikant said. “Is there a good
    answer? I don’t have it.”

    Pascack Valley notified parents of the unsettling incident last week.

    “This constitutes possession and or distribution of child pornography
    and it is a violation of the district’s acceptable use policy,” high
    school Principal Thomas DeMaio said in a June 5 letter to parents.

    The letter said the Bergen County Prosecutor’s Office had issued a
    48-hour grace period to let students delete these items from their
    computers, cell phones and iPods. Anyone found to have these images
    after 48 hours risked being charged with the 4th degree crime of
    possession of child pornography, it said.

    Joseph Macellaro, chief of detectives of the Bergen County Prosecutor’s
    Office, said today that his staff’s investigation is continuing.

     “We are still looking into it, and we will make a decision based on
    what we find out,” he said. “It is more than likely there won’t be any
    charges.”

    Hillsdale Police Chief Chip Stalter said his department was letting the
    school handle the incident as an internal disciplinary matter. Laws
    against child pornography were meant to be applied to “pedophiles and
    child predators, not high school hi-jinx,” he said.

    Two of his staffers — Patrolman Jeffrey Angermeyer, who is on the
    prosecutor’s computer crimes task force, and school resource officer
    Sean Kavanagh — lectured the entire high school on Friday to warn
    students against the dangers of sending sexy photos to even one friend.
    They stressed that once photos enter cyberspace, they can be seen by
    college admissions officers and potential employers as well as
    lascivious voyeurs.

    “These things you think are very innocent and done in fun . . . can
    ruin good chances for jobs later in life and cause great
    embarrassment,” he said.

    Parents picking up their teens from the high school on Monday expressed
    dismay and alarm. Some students said the stern lecture from police made
    them more aware of the consequences of such risky communications.

    Anthony Delchop of Hillsdale, the parent of a 14-year-old freshman boy,
    was sympathetic to the students. “I’m sure the ones who are hurt the
    most are the parents of the girls and the boys who are being punished,”
    Delchop added.

    “You’re always worried,” said Gina Pille of Hillsdale, the parent of a
    sophomore girl. “I don’t even know what they do on the computer.”

    Joanne Ramella, of Hillsdale, the mother of a freshman, said she came
    from a generation that did not use computers. She said her daughter,
    from a more sheltered private school, had never been so close to such
    turmoil.

    “I’m disappointed,” Ramella said, as her daughter nodded in agreement.
    “What’s important is educating young daughters what not to do and our
    young men on how to be gentlemen.”

    Sandra Russo of Washington Township has two nephews attending Pascack
    Valley. She criticized the school’s computer protections and said the
    school should be more careful in checking out laptops it issues.

     “I would be furious if I were a parent and this were on their
    computers,” Russo said. “It is absolutely crazy. Where is the security?”

    Tantillo said the school’s spam filters blocked pictures from entering
    its laptops via email. The offending photos must have been loaded onto
    somebody’s pen drive, which was then plugged into laptops. Raunchy
    photos were found on six or seven laptops, and on a cell phone
    confiscated from a male student. The seven suspended students also lost
    their privileges to access school technology networks and school email.

    Students trading nude pics all too common, expert says
    Tuesday, June 10, 2008
    Last updated: Tuesday June 10, 2008, EDT 8:01 PM
    BY LESLIE BRODY
    STAFF WRITER

    The
    Bergen County prosecutor said Tuesday that his office has investigated
    a half-dozen incidents of students using their cell phones to trade
    nude photos of classmates, and that children who do so often fail to
    grasp the consequences.

    John L. Molinelli said he is aware of at
    least six incidents since he was appointed prosecutor six years ago in
    which students were caught transmitting nude photos of their peers. The
    latest incident resulted in the suspension of seven ninth-graders at
    Pascack Valley High School for allegedly using cell phones and school
    laptops to distribute nude photos of middle school girls.

    “The
    kids involved have absolutely no concept of what they are doing and how
    dangerous it is,” Molinelli said. “They don’t understand the criminal
    aspect of it.”

    Fort Lee Detective Sgt. Patrick Kissane, president
    of the New Jersey Association of School Resource Officers, said the
    practice is alarmingly common, and it causes more pain and humiliation
    than students realize.

    “I can’t tell you the damage it does to
    young teens when they’re at the most critical point of their lives
    emotionally,” Kissane said. “It concerns cops not just as cops but as
    parents. You see the damage done just by the push of the send button.”

    Kissane’s
    warning came the day after news broke about the suspensions at Pascack
    Valley High School. More than 20 girls appeared in the photos, which
    typically featured bare breasts. They are now in the ninth grade, but
    school officials said they were photographed off campus when they were
    in middle school.

    Similar cases have hit the news recently from
    several states across the country. Kissane said the issue stirred a lot
    of discussion among police attending the New Jersey Juvenile Officers
    Association three weeks ago even though the subject wasn’t on the
    agenda. Several members said they had wrestled with similar incidents
    in their districts.

    “Sometimes girls take pictures of their
    breasts and send them to boyfriends, and some boys send them pictures
    of their genitals,” he said. “Or people are being intimate and taking
    pictures of each other, and then they’re not friends anymore and they
    send them around to embarrass” each other.

    School officials and
    police often don’t hear about these incidents because many families
    don’t realize it’s a crime, or parents don’t want to amplify a teen’s
    embarrassment by asking authorities to investigate.

    Technically,
    these offenses can be considered creation or distribution of child
    pornography, and endangering the welfare of a child.

    The
    Hillsdale police decided to let the school treat the Pascack Valley
    case as an internal disciplinary matter, on the grounds that child
    pornography laws are aimed to catch sexual predators, not high school
    pranksters. Molinelli said he supported that decision.

    “We would rather that they understand the consequences of what they are doing through other means,” he said.

    The
    prosecutor’s office dispatched a representative to the high school on
    Friday to explain the gravity of the offense to students at an assembly.

    Molinelli
    declined to identify the schools where the previous five incidents
    occurred. In each case, the students were gien 48 hours to delete the
    images to avoid prosecution.

    “We had very successful results in
    all five cases, and the students walked away with a much better
    attitude about the issue,” he said.

    Kissane said parents need to
    be vigilant about how teens use ever-changing technology. Many parents
    heed warnings that computers should be located in public spaces in
    homes, “but now students are carrying mini-computers around with them
    on their hips.”

    He said schools need to teach kids to be more
    wary too; “typically sex ed courses are about relationships and
    pregnancy, but we need to do more to educate kids about protecting
    their own integrity.”

    The Pascack Valley superintendent, Benedict
    Tantillo III, said Tuesday that reaction to the school’s handling of
    the matter had “run the gamut.”

    “Some parents are happy we went
    through this and the students faced consequences,” he said. “Other
    parents thought it was no big deal because all the kids do it.”

    He
    said none of the girls in the photos were suspended because it was
    impossible to tell whether the pictures were self-portraits or snapped
    by other people.

June 10, 2008

  • happy birthday jacob!

    jacob has become a most trustworthy friend and brother in the Lord.

    you know, when i first met him, i had a feeling that we would be good friends one day. you know how that happens with certain people?
    -maybe it was the Dave & Peter Han connection.
    -maybe it was the fact that he roots for the correct New York baseball team.
    -maybe it's because he's a fellow Karaoke King (fine, i'm just a prince).
    -maybe it's the way he passionately worships God.

    but i think it's because he loves God, and he knows that there are greater purposes for Him in addition to being a terrific eye doctor and Lasik surgeon. for example, he is a doctor of the heart, ya know.

    here's a final picture of Jacob running the race for God. happy birthday my man!